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My questions... How did the relationship begin? Why were you dating long distance? Did he buy you an engagement ring when he asked you to get married? Did you move closer to him because you mutually agreed it was best or did you decide to move on your own? My advice... Without more detail, I will say this... It sounds like he may be afraid of serious commitment. If you moved closer to him without mutually discussing it, he may feel that you are invading his space and pressuring him to commit deeper than he is ready. Casual dating (long distance) may be all he can handle right now, even though he asked you to marry. Meanwhile, give him the space he asks for, lay low and work on you. Explore your new surroundings, get yourself established and enjoy your new address. Take your time and if he was serious to begin with, he will come around! I have been dating this guy long distance for 10 months, he asked me to marry him after 7 months and I said yes. 2 days after I moved he told me he did not know what he wanted and needed some space. He talks about getting back together and he says he still wants to get married but I don't know if he is just telling me this b/c he is trying not to hurt me any more then he already has. What should I do? Tell him the same thing you just ask advice on. Say you don't feel you are ready and that you will still remain his friend. One thing couples fail to do is TALK! Let a person know how you feel, be honest. It may hurt in the beginning but he will respect you for being truthful about your feelings.
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