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hi i am a 14 years old female. this past week i have had these crying spells and i have been crying about little things that i would have never would have cryed about before. and i have never had the guts to tell anyone that my oldest brother used to touch me when i was like 7 or 8. witch is always popping up in my mind latelywhen i cry. at the time my brother touched me my mom was in a abusive relationship and my dad used to beat my two oldest brothers up and my mom and i had to see it and it emotionaly hurt me. and when my dad and mom where splitting up my dad used to look down my shirt all the time. and now i have to watch my little brother all the time and he hits me and leaves busies on my all the time if he does not get what he wants. and my 2nd oldest brother always takes advantage of me. and my mom is always working so i feel i take more responsibility than most people in my grade. i was wondering how to stand up for my self. and when me friends wine and say there life is so bad i just dont know waht to say to them cuz they dont know how bad my life was. Hi. I am a 22 year old female and am often told randomly sometimes by strangers that I am attractive and should be a model. Somehow this attention is more nerve wrecking than anything. At age 15 I lost my virginity to rape. It was someone in my extended family that did it. It took me a long time to come to terms with it and share this secret with my parents and siblings. I don't quite believe in family now. I don't know what to do. I am very shy around most if not all males and would really appreciate some advice on how to relax around guys. when you ask for advice from others, make sure your questions are clearly stated and that you are even asking a question to begin with.
and mean what you say Life is 100 times easier to live when you do. If you're stuck in heavy traffic, tailing someone who's tailing someone who's tailing someone will only make matters worse. Heavy traffic moves in waves. So instead of riding the bumper of the guy in front of you, try giving yourself some space in between you and that person, so that when they make their inevitable multiple stops and gos, you can keep coasting along behind.
don't think and act like they are. No matter how young you think you are or how young you act, you will get old and die. that you did some guy in the butt with a strap on. he'll end up telling all your friends. But you know yourself more than anybody else. |
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