Jealousy

from what it sounds like,
your situation may have something to do with both ends of the spectrum.
granted, your thoughts and feelings of jealousy can be justified, but there is a line of overreaction. whereas, on the other hand, if he is your boyfriend he should care about you enough to respect you.

i have had a similar situatuion, and although they were exes, they still hung out like good friends.
with something like this, alot of it is HEAVILY dependant of how much you trust each other.

and on the side, if he can't respect you, you probably shouldn't be dating him.

if you or anyone else, would like further advice on this or any other problem, or just to chat, just e-mail me.
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Ok, so I don't consider myself to be a jealous person, but lately I have been having an issue with my man.. See, he is still close with his most recent ex and they occasionally talk on the phone or get together for drinks, and all of that I have NO PROBLEM with, however, it does make me very uncomfortable when they spend hours alone together in her house. When I bring this up he tells me I'm just jealous and irrational and that all they do is talk. My only request is that they keep their interactions public and not spend hours alone together. He doesn't do this often, maybe every couple of months, but for some reason I just can't let it go.

So, my question is this.. am I crazy and irrational or should he respect that it bugs me and keep things public?!

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