Ok, so I don't consider myself to be a jealous person, but lately I have been having an issue with my man.. See, he is still close with his most recent ex and they occasionally talk on the phone or get together for drinks, and all of that I have NO PROBLEM with, however, it does make me very uncomfortable when they spend hours alone together in her house. When I bring this up he tells me I'm just jealous and irrational and that all they do is talk. My only request is that they keep their interactions public and not spend hours alone together. He doesn't do this often, maybe every couple of months, but for some reason I just can't let it go.

So, my question is this.. am I crazy and irrational or should he respect that it bugs me and keep things public?!

hey, so you say your mom can keep a secret then i would suggest you tell her and i had something simalar happen to me but any way my mom uderstod and i think that you should tell her. However your first period is not a secret.you can try to keep it a secret but most of the time you will end up telling friends

hope i helped

xoxo
a girl just like you

Tell him the same thing you just ask advice on. Say you don't feel you are ready and that you will still remain his friend. One thing couples fail to do is TALK! Let a person know how you feel, be honest. It may hurt in the beginning but he will respect you for being truthful about your feelings.
If he is scared be there as a friend. Don't bring a baby into this if you aren't ready. A baby is a lot of work and nurturing. If you aren't ready to be the best mom there is. then don't do it to please someone else.

Take care

so i woke up this morrning and for that i had
blood in my underwear. it wasnt a lot but it
shocked me, i dont kno what to do. and im scared
to tell my mom about it because she can keep a secret.
what should i do for every thing?

My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years, and we have been together almost everyday since we met. Both of us are very relaxed and chill, and our sense of humor is amazing together, so many people tell us that we compliment each other very well. I cannot even remember the last time we have been in a real fight. Just last week my boyfriend and I were hanging out all day and later that night he decided that he wanted to break up with me. I asked him to give me a reason why, but it was very vague. He said that he does not see a future with someone like me so I asked him what is it about me that he cannot see a future with and he could not give me an answer, he just kept saying I do not know. He begged me to stay friends and I told him that I did not know if I could plus every guy feeds you that line after they break up with you, but after I told him that I am not sure about being friends he said he understood but made me promise him that I would always keep his number in my phone. He said that he still cares for me, thinks that I am very cool, wants us to stay good friends, is still attracted to me, and wants me to come to him if i ever need anything. I am so confused, and he is not telling anyone else why he did it he just keeps saying he has changed and his feelings have changed, but cannot answer what has changed about him or us. he called me 4 days after we broke up and the conversation was very awkward, but then he asks me when we are hanging out again, so we decided on sunday and we are going out to lunch, and he told me that I had to pick were we are going. I am so confused, I just do not understand what is going on between us, and I need help. I not only lost my relationship but i lost my best friend.